Negotiation 101 - Part 5 - Don't Hurry or Be Rushed and Try to Avoid Having to Comply With the Other Party's "Rules".
The recent political battle over the extension of the debt ceiling is a stark example of both
sides of an issue using some variation of this rule to attempt to gain an advantage. We've all been there. It's the "Buy now or the price goes up tomorrow" sale approach or the "If you don't reduce the price and comply with my unreasonable contract terms, you won't get it done by the end of the quarter and consequently, you won't make your numbers." Sometimes it's not that blatant but it often is a definite undercurrent to a negotiation. "Settle now or we'll just go to trial" is another oft used ploy.
The obvious answer is to anticipate the deadlines and allow sufficient time for all the issues to be completely discussed. This is sometimes difficult if you are not the party that will benefit by the approaching of the looming deadline. Also, because of human nature, it is sometimes hard to get agreement unless each side feels the heat of a deadline. Is it wise to disclose your deadline? If it is a real deadline and you are prepared to not do a deal if you miss the deadline, it probably is. Here is where you consider your "BATNA" that we talked about earlier - the best alternative to a negotiated agreement.
I have used an example of negotiating by someone else's rules in a class I have taught in negotiating. In that, I tell them that I will auction off a $20 bill. The rules are only that each bid has to be at least in increments of $1 and that the party that doesn't buy it has to pay me their last bid. The obvious ploy is for the bidders to cooperate and bid $1 without a competing bid and then share the profits among the co-conspirators. However, that rarely happens and the bidding rapidly progresses until both (there's usually only two) realize that the maximum advantage ($20) is rapidly dwindling and that neither can afford to lose. I have had bids as high as $100 before I've stopped it and made the point about negotiating according to another's rules without giving it sufficient thought. The point to all of this is to try to attain an equal footing in regard to scheduling, times, places, deadlines and selected issues. The other party has tried to impose its rules on you for a reason and it's certainly not because it is to your advantage.
This bill passed the Senate by a vote of 95 to 5, so given the political climate in Washington today, you almost have to assume that it doesn't do much, but that might be unfair. Some of its features include:
maintenance for Oracle software. Unfortunately, TomorrowNow chose to reduce its operating costs by pirating a bunch of Oracle software and then using it in its business.
e and notice that the traffic signals are insufficient to avoid multiple mishaps here. Florid prose aside, attorneys must understand that certain methods of electronic communications may put them in an ethical problem if they don't warn their client that using such method may harm the confidential nature of the communication.
downloaded Oracle software thousands of time in an effort to get the software cheaply (free) and obtain some of Oracle's customers. Oracle sued and SAP did not contest the fact of the downloads but alleged that the damages to Oracle should be equal to the profits that Oracle would have realized from the pirated software. The Court allowed the jury to find damages based on a "hypothetical license" that would have existed between Oracle and SAP if Oracle allowed SAP to use the software in question. This allowed the jury to find damages in the amount of $1.3 billion, the largest copyright infringement verdict in history. However,
will be ordered.